Sometimes you just need to laugh at people's foibles and move on. I have a neighbor who doesn't like the neighborhood children to play in her front yard if no-one in her family is outside, yet she thinks nothing of opening the gate and walking into my backyard with the children she babysits. I was a little offended, but just let it go. If it happens again, I will say something; more because I don't want to be liable if one of her daycare kids slips in chicken poo and goes home filthy, or something worse happens. Some people seem to only see their desires, and dont realize that there are boundaries and what they want doesn't make it right or courteous.