Hi everyone! I wanted to close this loop with a bit of good news, so we can all know there was a happy ending for this ongoing saga.
The last straw: after the neighbors' roaming Tom tried to attack my husband and dog again, to the degree that my husband stayed in the house and the tom stalked him from window to window lol, he finally had enough and firmly told the neighbors to rehome their flock immediately (2nd request, but way less patient than he was the first time some months back). Of course, the next day--a hot summer day--the turkey is locked in a small stall in the shed with no food, and my husband and I let him out and told the neighbors "that's not what we want." We offered to pay them to rehome their chickens and then, even though they refused help to find a home, I went ahead and got them one.
Turning Point: An old friend from work who has a large farm in the mountains agreed to makes space in her barn for the WHOLE flock! That's right: they go to go together. It's a rustic set up, but, get this: there's plenty of ventilation! Also, the barn has concrete walls and insulation, so I'll know they are much more comfortable than they had been. They will also get to free range with her current flock, so they'll have a similar lifestyle to what they are used to. Lastly, my friend is retired and I know she will spend a lot of time looking out for her animals (because that is what she likes to do!). In fact, this whole thing has rekindled our friendship, so I've been down to visit her and my godchickens every week--and it's been a beautiful thing.
Happy Ending: The chickens seem to have made themselves at home and merged quite peacefully with the current flock. The turkey has calmed down and continues to be a great flock protector and friend to his new family. Everyone seems happy, and while I miss them like crazy, it feels good to know they are being looked after and cherished. Our neighbors may hate us now for interfering (pride issues), but at least it's actually resolved/taken care of.
Thank you, everyone, for your kind, supportive posts over the past year! You all helped me--and the chickens/turkeys--get through a stressful ordeal, and I'm so happy to report this good news! Please feel free to scroll on for some pictures of the girls in their new digs 