DEAL!!! I'll even help you build a good fence in the spring, if you need.
These past 2 years, I've put in a garden for a dentist friend of mine, in trade for dental work. Last year, we did all the weeding and watering because they had to temporarily move out of their house due to mold. This year they're back in their house, and have kids ages 9 years to adult, who are supposed to be doing the weeding and watering. It was not done well at all, and the garden was suffering badly. The last time I was over there, I had to step back and tell myself that my job was to plant it, not to ensure its success. The weeding/watering was their responsibility. But it was one of my babies, so I had to distance myself a little. So yeah... I guess I can't expect someone else to see their garden as high a priority as I see mine. But then, this was for a family that didn't need to save money on the food. They were doing the garden more as a project.