Her house is about 60' from mine, she sits in an upstairs room with the light out and apparently watches and listens to everything going on in my yard and in my house. I don't care about her videotaping my yard, all she will do is ruin her case because she can't catch my dogs barking for more than a few seconds, but one thing she reported really bothers me and I think it borders on stalking, she reported that my dogs were fighting inside my house and that they stressed out my bird. Well my dogs don't fight they wrestle like most dogs do and my bird, she's a 30 year old African Grey and if the dogs stressed her out she would probably just fly over to them and bite them on the nose lol. But the idea that this woman is sitting in her bedroom peering into my house, that bothers me a great deal.
I read your initial post some days back and have been through this with two friends. Both cases ended up in court. I have a question for you. You havent mentioned where your dogs are during the day and whether they have access to the yard to freely bark or what breed they are. As a dog trainer of 25 plus years and someone who did dog rescue for 10, barking dogs absolutely drive me insane. There are dogs that live behind me and are barking right now and they bark the ENTIRE TIME they are outside. The only reason I stopped complaining about them was when I got hens and since they now perform their egg song, I figured it was an exchange of sorts. I just dont understand why these neighbors are not bothered by the insistent barking and noise these dogs make. Why should the neighborhood have to listen to it esp me I live right behind them.
I dont mean to sound insensitive but I can tell you both friends partially created what happened to them. One ran a rescue and had a gazillion animals at her house and some other things that she was cited for. Although when it came time to step up and clean up her act, she did. By then however the neighbor from hell was already on the warpath. The second friend raises and shows dogs. Has a license etc etc but Im sure the dogs barked because they were outside part of the day.
I would recommend an attorney to ask them to file a complaint for harassment against the neighbor. You and the other neighbor can each pay their share. Sometimes just having an attorney quiets things a bit because now a neighbor knows your no longer kidding around and if they want to push, you can too.