Hi everyone! Thank you so much for the condolences. I am feeling better today. Yesterday I was a total mess. I know it was much much better for my mom to not have to suffer but I am selfish enough to have wanted a little more time. Plus it was my son's 21st birthday yesterday and I felt like the worst person on the planet having to give him that kind of news on his birthday (he was super close to his grandma). He had a party planned last weekend and canceled it to come down here to Reno to see her for a couple of days.
My Dad is having a terrible time of it. The only time I've ever seen him cry in my life is a few happy tears. Now it is heart wrenching to see how lost and so so sad he is. They have been married since they were teenagers and were one of those ridiculously sappy couples that still adored each other after all these years. Sorry if I'm making anyone feel uncomfortable. Guess I need to talk to someone.
No response needed though. Part of the circle of life and all that. Really not a dang thing anyone can say at a time like this anyway. I know time will heal all. OK enough of this sad stuff. My Mom would be shocked to hear me talking like this. I've never been good at talking about "my feelings". Well some feelings I'm good at expressing, like when I'm ticked off. lol
Missy, I'm afraid that you are correct about the marans eggs. One of the drawbacks to the super hard shell of the marans is the lower hatch rate. Only the toughest chicks can get through that thick, hard shell. Anyone that has hatched them alongside other breeds knows the difference. My EEs and ameraucanas hatched super easy with a fantastic hatch rate but even my own marans eggs had a lower hatch rate. Shipped eggs are even tougher because the PO is so rough with the boxes.
Marans are also known for their very uniformly shaped eggs that are often so round it is hard to tell which end is up resulting in eggs being set upside down when using an automatic turner (and trust me you don't want to do this by hand 3 times a day unless you're only hatching a few). The dark shells make it impossible to see the air sac. If you can you're hatching eggs that are not that dark and, of course, everyone wants to shoot for the chocolate colored eggs.
Of course that hard, non-porous shell is what keeps marans eggs fresh for so long and that is one reason that they are so sought after. It's a trade-off. Ah well. If they were easy to hatch they wouldn't be as fun. I like a challenge. I don't think I'll try shipped eggs again though! After seeing all these videos lately about how fragile packages are handled I'm surprised anything ever hatches when eggs are shipped!
Happy Birthday
Kim! Yours is right between my oldest and youngest. My DD was born on Feb. 6th and my DS was born on the 2nd (ground hog's day). All these Aquarians! I've been surrounded by them my whole life. My brother is an Aquarian, my 2 kids are and my step-son is on the cusp. I get along very well with most all Aquarians.
Congrats on the new bator,
Sheryl! But please! No more talk about Balut!