We'll see how much Sahara follows up on her desire. We told her that, if she does the work for an SQ breeder duck, we'll buy it. Not on credit... she has to work off the amount first. So because she is just barely showing such a spike in motivation, I'll let her lead it. I feel that, if she wants it badly enough to follow through and care for the animal and show it, she'll do the initial work.
Right now she's doing so well with sewing and cooking, and now a little bit with the clarinet. A year ago, she didn't want to work toward ANYTHING but maybe collect items that her parents paid for.
DMV: we've always had luck going Saturday afternoons, just a couple of hours before they close. It's a gamble, because if they are busy you might not get your stuff done before they close. But we've hardly had a wait then. Monday mornings... NO!!!!!!! Fridays can be pretty bad, too.