I'm kinda new so didn't post on the other thread since you really don't know me. I have been praying for you and your family all through this. I missed the drama (thank God) and am very sorry you had to go through that on top of everything else. Remember, your husband comes first! A board is just a board, and your right, it doesn't matter what other people think. You know in your heart what is right.
You are taking great care of your husband. Just remember to take care of yourself too when you can.