@tripletfebAbsolutely! This one's for you, Debbie!
You know, I'm starting to think there are a lot of people like this. Of course it feels like crap when it's family, even though I'm sure it's not personal. I took a similar route and just don't bother sharing anymore. So you're not alone.
BUT, my mental health has improved tenfold!
I agree to what was said above
I wrote off selfish people a long time ago. Fake friends for instance. Those that only use you when they want something and leave you high and dry you when you really need support.
IMHO, you can choose your own family! I have let only a few into my world, and I am much more confident and happier by far to what I once was.



