About the poorly behaved kids, they are being trained to behave that way. If the parents wanted them to be well behaved they would have the talk outside before they came in and the reward would be mentioned at that time but not given UNLESS the child meets the requirements. It's not rocket science, it's a bit like training a dog in this aspect. If you reward bad behavior then you will get more of the same. Short term vs long term.
Guess you struck a chord.
Guess you struck a chord.
