Sune42,
Welcome to the gang! Yep New Orleans is a wild place indeed..
(Oh I could tell some stories.....NOT!) I would love to hear about some of your husbands Druid followings. (Being a gardener, I am very fascinated by Druids ability to garden..)
I have WHAT in my yard,
Here i my .02 cents...(IMHO!!!) In the ghost world time is not relevant. He could be from the past, present, future or heck another dimension. He may not even died as a serviceman, could just be someone who was very connected to their time in the military. (In his last days of his life my father was reliving time on the front in WWII.) To me the point is this soul is scared and lost.. Be a bit careful, but give him comfort like a mother. Be gentle, instill confidence, let him know he is OK. Help him "see the light". Interesting, appearing in a class room and students sensing something too. Me personally would not focus how, if, when he died, but the fact that he is scared and lost. Don't forget our own feelings and perceptions can get jumbled up with the message from the spirit.. (Sorry, if I am way off.. I have just had luck, with skipping the details and focusing on their needs. For me, it quickly goes from a haunting, to the "warm fuzzy" sensation of a soul on its way to where it is going...)
Deb1, Nice story about your son. Sounds like you and your family are on a good path with open discussion about feelings and spirituality. Personally, do not see god as male or female. It is just pure energy, which an individual can connect with in any form. (Male, female, apple, orange..) Really does not matter, the point is one finds their own personal connections, with something that is way beyond our little tiny fragile egg shell minds.)
Grrr.. That peep salad, has my sweet tooth acting up.. Better go get something sweet to eat..
ON