Official Pagan Thread!

[colowyo0809]

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I know how you feel. In the last five years I've managed to tear both of my knees, one at a time.

 

[sune42]

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Ouchie! Hope you feel better soon!

 

[ebwy]

sounds like everyone's got loads of things going on, wishing positivity and health and happiness for you all..

Saddina, having been paralysed (was told I'd never walk again.. but I was lucky and had a miracle) I can tell you this - YOU are not your legs. your legs are NOT you. I was still me whether half my body worked or not, and that's what gave me the strength to cope with it. I'm very sorry it's happening to you, but you are still the lovely, bright woman that we have come to know and love. I'm sure your children feel the same way

you're still their mom and they love you and want to be with you no matter what, so enjoy that fact if nothing else in this.
I wish I could find the words to say what I mean, but I can't.
I admire your strength

 

[saddina]

My second husband was an amputee. A diabetic that had an infection settle into his leg bones. I remember telling him over and over not having a leg wouldn't make him less of a man. He held out untill he had days left, then gave into my begging. That began him resenting me. He didn't magically stop loving me, but slowly it ate at him to need his wife to care for him. He was leaving me for another woman when he died, had a seisure while driving the car and slammed into a building. I lost him and our daughter.

I worry that i'll become resentful towards the boys, or mr saddi. That the meds and the pain will change who I am.

 

[colowyo0809]

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Truly, the meds and the pain only change you if you want to be changed.

Sending you some positives!!

 

[ebwy]

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they won't change who you are, you won't let that happen.
I'm sorry for your loss of your daughter and husband.

but you are too aware of what could happen to let it happen to you.

 

[heatherindeskies]

Hi
I'm not sure exactly what i believe now... raised christian.
can someone define pagan please?

 

[DuckLady]

Please read here and ponder

https://www.backyardchickens.com/forum/viewtopic.php?pid=4340742#p4340742