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It appeared to get worse with time. Roger has always snored, but over the last 8 years or so, was not waking up rested. He would stop breathing at night. I would lay there listening for him to start back snoring and when he wouldn't, I would nudge him. Neither of us were getting good rest.
When I mentioned it to our doctor during routine annual physicals, the doctor discussed it with Roger and sent him for the first sleep study...about 5 years ago. We tried cpaps to no avail. The specialist we were seeing told him that without a trach, he would be dead within a year from health complications caused by the sleep apnea. People who die are "diagnosed with stroke, heart attach, natural causes instead of the sleep apnea.
The first trach was made of silicone. Over two years, he had to have that one replaced 5 times and developed an allergy to the silicone. That's why we went to OU Physicians. They are wonderful and as Roger said, "You have to step out on faith and trust the doctors at some point". The amount of tissues they removed was not the "normal" surgery, but necessary for him. The recovery time was uncomfortable but essential.
My dad had severe sleep Apnea. He ignored all the drs and never did anything about it. But he didn't die of it. He lived for years, past 70. He died of cancer in the lung from years of smoking, and emphysema.
But I am glad that your hubby took measures to get better! I hope you all have a long, satisfying life together. And may you both raise many batches of chicks together.