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Sorry about your MIL, alzhiemer's really sucks that's for sure. My gma, who raised me, had it. Between my father and I we were able to keep her in her home until just about 6 months before she passed. We had to place her in a locked nursing facility for that last 6 months for her safty, the violent mood swings and the extreme independence (wandering and getting lost) is when we had to make sure she had eyes on her 24/7. We agonized about that descision, but when we were forced to it, it was actully not bad, in her world she thought she was in a missionary home (one of her life long dreams). She actually passed w/ a heart condition before the bitter end stages (catatonia) we viewed that as a blessing. If recognized and dealt w/ early enough there are some good meds out there now that slow it way down, giving extra years (if they work on the individual). Enjoy the good clear times, don't be afriad to laugh at the funny moments that will help to keep you sane, and don't be afraid to morn for your loss. Bottling it up to be "strong" doesn't do any good for you or her.