Just read this thread, end to end.. wow.
Here's what I keep thinking... If you'd decided to get your daughter out of the way, shut the gate, and let the dog take all 31 chickens and keep its life, the neighbors would owe you $310... If they'd rolled up right about then looking for their dog and you gave them a choice of handing you the $310 they owed or letting you shoot the dog, they'd have thought for about 15 seconds and said "Shoot him."
Not a doubt in my mind. Just sounds like the kind of people they are..
Ya know, one of my border collies got out once and was gone for 62 hours. She came back on her own, but I have no way of knowing what she got into. When she wasn't back within just a few hours, I was pretty well convinced that she was already in the ground. I was well into the grieving process when she finally showed back up.
That's just how it works out here, and everybody knows it. You see a strange dog lurking near your stock -- be it cattle, horses, chickens, goats, whatever -- you shoot it. That's all there is to it.
That said, I don't think anybody particularly likes killing dogs, given that almost all of us have had the pleasure of knowing a good dog at some point in our lives...it just has to be done. To me, the prospect of having to kill a neighbor's best friend is truly among the most displeasant aspects of rural life..
I'm really, really sorry your daughter lost her chickens.. And, for what it's worth, as the guy who would be wielding the artillery in a similar situation around here...I'm sorry your husband had to kill that dog. He may not show it -- we guys are like that sometimes -- but I'm sure it was hard on him, too.