This has really been an interesting thread and with the further details provided by the opening post the situation, although still troubling b/c of its nature, is more clear now. In the early stages of this post it made it sound like the OP, in a moment of angst and anger "offed" the dog. Again, that was derived from the details given. Whereas, it sounds like "K" actually went through extensive discussions with the owner to avoid such a tragedy for both parties.
To the forum, in my mind b/c our opinions are not the same does not mean that one is judging. I was impressed with KHayward for saying that all opinions were OK with her and how she has kept her composure. I also would hope that we all demonstrate a bit of maturity in our posts and not become rude or aggressive in our responses.
And yes this was a very personal situation - "walk a mile in my shoes". I can't imagine comping upon my beautiful birds, torn apart or left dying b/c of an ignorant, irresponsible dog owner. I also am aware of the extreme difficulty in "teaching or conditioning" out a behavior in a repeat offender.
I live in New England, a town of 600 where the closest grocery store is 15 minutes away not an hour, (what we think of rural) and realize now that we are extremely fortunate to have the support systems to address predators, whether they be coyotes, bear or domestic dogs . Here it is not common for a land owner to be put in the position that KHayward was placed in.
This is very much a geographic difference, b/c by the sounds of it the local governments and county systems are either not held responsible, do not have the manpower or budgets to deal with stray or neglected animals.
I have learned quite a bit in this thread - about people, emotions and our country.
To the forum, in my mind b/c our opinions are not the same does not mean that one is judging. I was impressed with KHayward for saying that all opinions were OK with her and how she has kept her composure. I also would hope that we all demonstrate a bit of maturity in our posts and not become rude or aggressive in our responses.
And yes this was a very personal situation - "walk a mile in my shoes". I can't imagine comping upon my beautiful birds, torn apart or left dying b/c of an ignorant, irresponsible dog owner. I also am aware of the extreme difficulty in "teaching or conditioning" out a behavior in a repeat offender.
I live in New England, a town of 600 where the closest grocery store is 15 minutes away not an hour, (what we think of rural) and realize now that we are extremely fortunate to have the support systems to address predators, whether they be coyotes, bear or domestic dogs . Here it is not common for a land owner to be put in the position that KHayward was placed in.
This is very much a geographic difference, b/c by the sounds of it the local governments and county systems are either not held responsible, do not have the manpower or budgets to deal with stray or neglected animals.
I have learned quite a bit in this thread - about people, emotions and our country.