Thanks Everyone,
I will clean the head again and hopefully get it draining, The vets in our area aren't cheap, so that's not really an option... she is not a very nice cat at all and would probably rip me to shreds if I tried too give her a bath, but I'll get her wrapped in a towel again and give her some antibiotics, I actually have this really great cream that came from the vet a little while back and I have used it on the chickens numerous times, I'll try it on her.
thanks everyone,
-roxyblue
( I make sure to fix all of my cats, I find in very irresponsible when people don't)