please please please thoughts and prayers please *Update* GOOD NEWS

[incubatingisfun]

im praying for your family to

 

[BirdBoy88]

Hey everyone

I just got home it's 3:26am my time

First off i want to thank you all for your thoughts and prayers we really need this and it means a lot you all are doing this for us

It's just so hard

I have been the strong one all day keeping everyone in order keeping the kids happy... but i am finally alone to myself and i can finally have my moment to break down.. and i am this very moment

It's just so hard i love my family dearly and to see a family member laying there in a hospital bed hooked up to so many wires and see there chest being pumped with air on life support really smashes your heart .. i stood there and i held her hand in mine everyone left the room so i could be alone with her and i had my own talk with her... i talked to her about her babies and her husband and i told her please stay strong and she gripped onto my hand... i can't tell you how that made me felt she knew i was there and heard every word i said .. my heart just over flows though right now i am keeping positive for a good outcome and everything ... i just feel so helpless though .. i am always wanting to help someone in need it's just in my nature and i can't help her.. only with prayer i can but i want to help .. it hurts so bad so so bad ...

I am going to be going back to the hospital later in the morning.. .. she's strong i know she will pull through she has to. right before we left the Hospital we were all saying our goodnights to her and she started having tears come down from her eyes and it just hit us all very hard her eyes didn't open but she had tears fall from them and it hit our hearts like a bomb

So please keep the thoughts and prayers coming me and my family really appreciate it

thank you all again

 

[saddina]

Mark dear, remember that you need your rest to. I know it seems wrong to rest when others are depending on you, but right now you're the only one really functioning.

 

[BirdBoy88]

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Yea your right

I just woke up actually.. i didn't sleep very long but it was something... i had to get up now though to feed my nephews ...while everyone else rest ... i took off work today it was no way i could go

And i am finally getting some food in me right now...when i talked to Christy lastnight all i could find to eat were a small 50cent bag of chips and bottle water

i haven't heard any updates on her yet but as soon as i do i will surly let you all know

thanks again

 

[Mahonri]

Mark,

The fact that she is responding to what you say is VERY encouraging... .but her recovery could take some time, a stroke like that can have permanent effects OR it can eventually heal completely.... and that is what we are praying for.

Stay strong, get some rest and we'll all keep praying.

 

[CoopCrazy]

On Mark.. I have been following this thread and my heart goes out to you soo much... It is such a terrible thing to see loved ones like that.. It sounds to me that you all have an amazing family and so many prayers coming to her... I will be thinking about you both today and sending strenght and ciourage to you both... If you need to talk hit me up on PM...

Love ya hun...

 

[Robin'sBrood]

Will continue to pray for her, you, and your family...

 

[luvmychicknkids]

Mornin' Mark. I hoped you would be able to sleep in this morning......but pretty much knew you wouldn't. I am glad you finally got some decent food, though. Give those precious boys an extra big, squishy hug from me.

 

[onthespot]

mark, the fact that she can squeeze a hand and all the things you said, so soon after being in the shape they found her is just astonishing good news!!! Like Mahonri said, nothing is sure at this point, but that is SO ENCOURAGING!!! I though maybe this thread was going to be very short and sad when I read the first post. I am so glad she is still fighting the fight. I lost my mother to the very same thing when i was seven, so I know first hand how devastating this can be for a family. My strongest and deepest good thoughts go out to her and your whole family. Barring more setbacks, I predict she will continue to improve quite a bit in the new year. Here's hoping at least.

 

[chickflick]

Sending prayers your way for you and your family, Mark.