Oooh! Oooh! Just noticed this thread...I'm a beginner getting started with both breeds so I'll chime in!
I love the temperament of my 3 Buff Orp hens. They are all easy-going and friendly, and they don't mind being handled. They are a little boring to look at, but their personalities are great.
My 5 Barred Rocks have a WIDE range of personalities. Hen #1 is the friendliest hen I have - the first to come greet me and look for treats. Very gentle too. Hen #2 is nice...sometimes noisy but fine. Hen #3 is a friendly, kinda scrappy. Curious about everything...lol...maybe too curious cuz she'll bite and peck. Hen #4 is kinda standoffish...has a bit of a mean streak. She has warmed up to me, but she used to peck a lot. She is the first to confront 'danger'...she'll go after the cats if they get into the coop
and finally Hen #5 is very shy.
I got my hens as started pullets, so I don't know exactly where they came from. I'm pretty sure they are from a feed store (hatchery stock). The source of your birds could make all the difference, so ask around and see what others recommend!
As far as egg production goes...I can't really tell them apart! All the eggs look fairly similar and range in size from medium to large. Even now in the winter I'm getting 5 to 7 eggs a day from the 8 hens (I do have light in the coop). So I'm pretty happy with that! But we have yet to see who will go broody this spring...
Anyway, I guess my vote is for the Buff Orps. (But really I think you should try both to find out which one works best for you!!!
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