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As if my family isn't wonderful enough as it was...(insert sarcasm there)... Yesterday was my Gma's birthday. I got there with a card... since she doesn't really need anything and we had just gotten her a bunch of flowers last weekend. I saw that there was another card there, and some flowers in a pot. I read the card.. nice.. real nice. it has my brothers name, his wifes, their childnrens, my sisters, and her hubbies, their childrens, and get this.. all the dogs... but lo and behold my name and my families names, seem to be missing off the card. I asked my sis in law who gave her the pot of flowers, i was just wondering and i recieved no response. SO, long story short, They bought her flowers, and a card and decided to leave my name off it to make me look bad just in case i didn't get down there to give her a card. well, poo on them. make me feel like crap.
i am so sick of all this. i can't wait to just get this all done and over with. I have already decided that once my gma does pass, and once they are buried and my aunt and uncle go back to Nevada.. i am done with the rest of them. I am so sick and tired of hurting so much inside.. they don't give a rip about me, just like to make me feel like an outsider. they never thought to ask me to chip in for the flowers? i would have. she likes flowers. duh.. that's why i bought her a vase and would bring her flowers throughout the spring and summer.
It bothered me so much i cried all the way home.. my heart aches so much with the anger that all this gives me. can't treat me like a person?
thanks alot.. i thought family was supposed to be there for each other.. sis tells me to keep in touch? forget that.. they can't even stop by my house to tell me that they are doing this or that for dad's funeral or they are going to the funeral home so we can decide on everything. i had no say in any of that stuff. i was left out. and i was talking to a friend about it and someone else over heard and told my brother.. and instead of asking me about it.. he goes around and asks other people if i was complaining to them.. i wasn't really complaining.. just stating the obvious. I wasn't told of anything that pertained to dad until after the fact. can't he see with his own eyes that i am being left out? i dunno. like i said.. ill be glad when this is said and done. my married family treats me like a human that's actually a part of the family. treats me like im blood and not just married in.
i dunno if my brother and sister are treating me like this cuz im not fully related.. cuz my mom is a different mom.. i always thought dad raised us as real brother and sisters.. guess i was wrong when i posted that. Glad they proved me wrong on that one before i got too involved with them again. ah the joys of family.
my mom went to see my gma last night too. it bothered my mom though that she didn't have a room with a view. it's kind of funny that my mom goes to see my gma.. it's my mom's ex b/fs mom LOL... but they were close. and im glad. the rest of my dad's family.. is not good.
anyway.. i'm just writing to let out frustrations. im exhausted with emotions and just.. sick of it all.
i am so sick of all this. i can't wait to just get this all done and over with. I have already decided that once my gma does pass, and once they are buried and my aunt and uncle go back to Nevada.. i am done with the rest of them. I am so sick and tired of hurting so much inside.. they don't give a rip about me, just like to make me feel like an outsider. they never thought to ask me to chip in for the flowers? i would have. she likes flowers. duh.. that's why i bought her a vase and would bring her flowers throughout the spring and summer.
It bothered me so much i cried all the way home.. my heart aches so much with the anger that all this gives me. can't treat me like a person?
i dunno if my brother and sister are treating me like this cuz im not fully related.. cuz my mom is a different mom.. i always thought dad raised us as real brother and sisters.. guess i was wrong when i posted that. Glad they proved me wrong on that one before i got too involved with them again. ah the joys of family.
my mom went to see my gma last night too. it bothered my mom though that she didn't have a room with a view. it's kind of funny that my mom goes to see my gma.. it's my mom's ex b/fs mom LOL... but they were close. and im glad. the rest of my dad's family.. is not good.
anyway.. i'm just writing to let out frustrations. im exhausted with emotions and just.. sick of it all.
