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In this case, petition would be humble, heartfelt, earnest prayer. Tell Him EVERYTHING humbly and thankfully.![]()
Oh ok, thanks

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Welcome!
In this case, petition would be humble, heartfelt, earnest prayer. Tell Him EVERYTHING humbly and thankfully.![]()
Oh ok, thanks![]()
Sure thing
I suffer from some pretty heavy anxiety at times, too. It can have me locked in my house avoiding the beauty in the world. I still need to see the good or I'll become disillusioned and think that it's all 100% bad. Flowers, puppies, the sky, all this amazing creation, put here just for us.
But I do take precautions to avoid giving myself anxiety. I try to avoid the news, for one. We don't even have cable, just a movie collection. And if I do stumble onto some bad news that gets me all upset, I pray for the person. Even when I'm crying over a baby lost to its own parents or a madman driving a truck through a crowd. Pray about it, every which way you can.
And it's okay to be angry, just don't STAY angry. That's what prayer helps me with; it calms me.
Sure thing
I suffer from some pretty heavy anxiety at times, too. It can have me locked in my house avoiding the beauty in the world. I still need to see the good or I'll become disillusioned and think that it's all 100% bad. Flowers, puppies, the sky, all this amazing creation, put here just for us.
But I do take precautions to avoid giving myself anxiety. I try to avoid the news, for one. We don't even have cable, just a movie collection. And if I do stumble onto some bad news that gets me all upset, I pray for the person. Even when I'm crying over a baby lost to its own parents or a madman driving a truck through a crowd. Pray about it, every which way you can.
And it's okay to be angry, just don't STAY angry. That's what prayer helps me with; it calms me.
Yeah, me too :/ I get what you mean.
I'll try to speak to that from my personal experience. We've all had situations in our lives where our whole world is being turned upside down, inside out, and we have no idea how the story will end. In my case, it involved family members. I'll not go into much for detail on a public forum, but will say that , I came very close to loosing my husband to sudden onset illness which left him pretty debilitated for a year. Shortly after that, I had a family member who went down a path of self destruction that tore our family apart, and it's taken close to 2 decades to begin to repair the destruction left in it's wake. While relationships can be restored with time, forgiveness, and the power of God, the natural consequences associated with such rebellion remain forever. During my husband's illness, I can say that I was not joyful. I was scared. But, I did have the assurance that MY GOD was in control. I knew that He would not give me more than I could take. I remember having conversations with Him, telling God, that I simply was not ready to be a widow! And he honored that. Could He have answered the other way? Of course. During that time, when people would offer their "support" in the hospital, I would often hear such plattitudes as "He's a good man. Why does this happen to good families?" My response: "The rain falls on the just and the unjust. My God is in control." When dealing with the other family issue, I was deeply saddened. Many times, over and over and over again, I had to keep turning the situation over to God and let go of it myself. In such circumstances, I believe that God does not expect us to waltz through it singing the "la-la" song. I believe He meets us in our pain and our grief. We can say, honestly to Him: "God, this hurts. This hurts more than I've ever hurt before. But, I know you are with me, and that Jesus has born all of this and more. So, with you carrying me, I can get through this." The joy and peace comes in knowing that God is with me in all circumstances. I don't have to do it alone.I'm not sure if this is a question that can really be answered but I'll ask anyway. It kind of bothers me that so many verses in the Bible deal with having peace and not being afraid when life isn't peacefull. It's depressing and full of stress. Yet as Christians were expected to be full of joy and peace. Are you a "bad Christian" if you are unhappy or worried? Does having faith in God REALLY give you peace? Or just the hope of having peace at the end of your life?
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I'll try to speak to that from my personal experience. We've all had situations in our lives where our whole world is being turned upside down, inside out, and we have no idea how the story will end. In my case, it involved family members. I'll not go into much for detail on a public forum, but will say that , I came very close to loosing my husband to sudden onset illness which left him pretty debilitated for a year. Shortly after that, I had a family member who went down a path of self destruction that tore our family apart, and it's taken close to 2 decades to begin to repair the destruction left in it's wake. While relationships can be restored with time, forgiveness, and the power of God, the natural consequences associated with such rebellion remain forever. During my husband's illness, I can say that I was not joyful. I was scared. But, I did have the assurance that MY GOD was in control. I knew that He would not give me more than I could take. I remember having conversations with Him, telling God, that I simply was not ready to be a widow! And he honored that. Could He have answered the other way? Of course. During that time, when people would offer their "support" in the hospital, I would often hear such plattitudes as "He's a good man. Why does this happen to good families?" My response: "The rain falls on the just and the unjust. My God is in control." When dealing with the other family issue, I was deeply saddened. Many times, over and over and over again, I had to keep turning the situation over to God and let go of it myself. In such circumstances, I believe that God does not expect us to waltz through it singing the "la-la" song. I believe He meets us in our pain and our grief. We can say, honestly to Him: "God, this hurts. This hurts more than I've ever hurt before. But, I know you are with me, and that Jesus has born all of this and more. So, with you carrying me, I can get through this." The joy and peace comes in knowing that God is with me in all circumstances. I don't have to do it alone.