Hi I think I sold you those peachicks at chicken stock.
We were all new to peafowl once and learned by trial and error. But as i mentioned on the phone, catching a peacock and trying to hold it will really only make it more afraid of you the next time you get near it. They are a wild animal and not domesticated like chickens. You can however calm them down with food... but it really has to be on their terms and not ours. If you got those chicks when they were only a few days old, you can easily handle them and tame them from the start... non the less, as grown birds they still don't like to be touched.
Id be surprised if your wild chick was a spalding, but its a possibility ..... sometimes chicks loose their bands but spaldings are darker than india blues, and I would have noticed and not taken it to the swap.
I offered to trade you a chick that is calmer, that offer still stands..... I have several here. If you would like to bring them both I can confirm sexes, and make sure you have 2 males. Having 2 males is nice.... they bond like brothers and are always together.
Do you have the peachicks with your chickens?? They do tend to learn by example. If they see your chickens eating from your hand... peafowl are curious creatures and will learn that you are safe, by the way the chickens behave with you.
Here is something else to think about ..... when we get stressed the brain releases stress hormones that say in the body for up to 3 days. If something else happens to cause more stress then more hormones are released.... so a build up occurs over and over until we are flipping out!
That is what is happening with your bird. He needs several days to be calm and quiet so that the stress hormones fade, he can relax, and then not be so reactive with the slightest bit of pressure. Have faith that he will not always be like this .... hes just not much fun to be around right now.
A few weeks ago I bought 2 mini silki goats... around 10-12 weeks old.... the little doe was WILD. Seriously!! born and raised out on the pasture with little contact with humans. She panicked every time I got 20-30 feet from her. I did exactly what you did with the peachick. Every day I caught her and tried to hold her and calm her down... she seemed to get worse. And then I gave up. 4-5 days later she was eating out of my hand. She is still nervous around me and I cant reach out to touch her ... but she will take food from my hand.
Let me know what you'd like to do.
Kathleen