Sounds like a war of wills. I've had a rooster like that - and it is like Asperger's Syndrome. Many in our family have it and our middle son's is the most obvious - he was the same way as a child. It was useless to spank him because he'd just look at you and say "It doesn't hurt." or re-do what got him in trouble to start with. We used to joke that if we spanked him for saying "no", his dying word would be "No." However, if we backed off he corrected the problem on his own.
I don't know if anyone else has noticed this - or if it is my Aspieness that picks it up - but kicking a rooster isn't like kicking another animal. Before I get others jumping on me or sending hate mail - I don't believe in kicking my animals, however I have been known to kick a rooster or a drake. I guess what I'm trying to say is that because of the way they are built, they don't actually get kicked as much as scooped.
It feels more like my foot fits nicely under their body, lifts them up and removes them from the situation (i.e. flying across the yard). Since they have wings they don't land with a thud. So, I don't feel so bad about the action. Now, why I compare it to Asperger's - Years ago I had a rooster that would attack me whenever I was in the yard. I'd kick it away, it would come back and attack again. Rather than kick at it as I tried to do work, I'd just stand there and the hard-headed little thing would come again and again and again. It reminded me of our son. Eventually, he would realize that I meant it and that I always stood my ground and stopped attacking me. After that, he'd look at me with the "I choose to not attack you, as head rooster I allow you in my domain." When in reality he knew that I ruled the roost.
So, it was much like assigning chores to our son. He'd complain, fuss and announce that he wasn't going to do it. Rather than confront him and end up in prison for child abuse, we'd walk away and say nothing. For example - dishes. The pile would still be on the sink when everyone went to bed but would be done when we got up in the morning. It had to be on his terms.
Good luck with your war of wills.