Sorry for your loss.I want to respond. My life long partner (44 years) passed away in January. I am not interested in another partner at this time, am not looking for one, and would not be pleased with the government, or anyone, playing matchmaker. No thanks.
Everyone, everything handles grief and loss differently. For several weeks after Ron died people were very concerned, kept asking me how I was doing. My response was "I'm doing okay, thanks, just miss him". I suspect Fret and the rest feel about the same.