I'm sorry for you. I moved to Nice 17 years ago after a last minute failed move to my dream mountainous left-wing city. I barely survived the humid heat and the conservative politics... and it most certainly didn't make me a better personThe political climate and actual climate in NJ.

Ask Shadrach for advice on surviving a move to a climatic and politically hostile environment ?
More seriously if it makes your wife really happy she'll help you feel better about it.