and I know what balut is thank you very much!! Dont know why people think its cool to boil animals alive but, hey if you cant see it it doesnt exist right?
I 100% am not defending the practice and would never do it myself, but apparently they take them out of incubation and 'prepare' them before the developing embryo has developed enough to feel pain, so at least there's that. So in that respect it's really no worse than harvesting an adult bird for food.
Lobster and crab is also prepared by boiling them alive and most people have no trouble with that, I guess because they aren't cute like ducklings.
Good luck with your one with the lump. I had a shipped one that actually had its brain on the outside. Luckily it did not hatch and died shortly after I had opened the air cell. Yours doesn't look like brain, so at least there's that! Maybe it's just edema and will go down.