Ok, you folks need to reel it back a bit...I did not intend on calling out transgendered Walnut into stating a preference...wow, you folks will run away with stuff like a chicken does...omg. I mean, transgendered is as good as any other role in a family finally in the U.S...but lets not talk human rights cause ppl would think its politics. IAE, Walnut (good name for a female oriented partner, equally good name for a male oriented partner) has awesome knowledge, great skills at actually using them, and even better skills at teaching them to others, so TY!