thank Heaven she is okay! wow, that's some pic... I would have been frightened to see that pic before I saw my girl... I had a bad wreck when I was 19, 2 blocks past our local hospital, I hit ice, and slid into a telephone pole, which cut through the car and pushed the engine in the front seat! if I had a passenger, they would have been seriously injured if not killed... luckily, I was alone. but my parents had to pass the car in order to get to the hospital. my Dad had to pull over to be sick. one look at the car and he truly believed I would not make it. I only got a bump on the knee from the dash board crushing in, and bruising from the seat belt... She'll want lots of soaking baths, with Epsom salts - that will help a lot. great big hugs for all of you! as far as her other Mom and the insurance and all that... it's a car. metal and rubber. replaceable. it looks totaled. oh well... the main aspect is your DD is safe and home. period.