So many debates all the time

[MistyandLuna]

I can’t handle it anymore. I’m too fragile for this world. I break down when I see these debates. The newest debate is about breeding rabbits for good type and conformation. And someone is basically getting mad at me for breeding for pets. I can’t stand it anymore. Do they want me to say, “okay you win.” All the time. This is why I have this mentality, that it just can’t go right or go well with me or whatever because it’s me. People reaffirm these things for me, they make me believe that I am inferior and not important. It’s true, anytime a person sees a time to step on or squash someone, they will. No one will stand up for you. I can’t stand up for myself, who will for me? I feel so low. Why can’t people be kinder, more empathetic? I am so so low. Do people realize that if they are mean and rude, it may be the last straw for someone and they might commit suicide? Why can’t people understand, have more compassion and think more about what they say? Please anyone who answers this, please be kind, I’m so exhausted and dreary

 

[MistyandLuna]

But then, I also feel really weird if I do end up sharing my thoughts on here and feel bad I guess for others who have to hear me because I feel that I don’t mesh well with society, that I just seem like an alien to them. I’m not sure how to describe it. But I feel that I’ve always been too fragile for this world, if someone wants to push me down to let themselves get higher, I let them. I just submit and tell them basically, “okay, mold me into whatever you want I guess.” There is times where I think about how I feel so inferior and I don’t get sad about it, I just accept it but then there are times like this where I just want to cry and cry and cry because I see how vicious and selfish people can be, and it brings me down.

 

[Lenny loves chickens]

I can’t handle it anymore. I’m too fragile for this world. I break down when I see these debates. The newest debate is about breeding rabbits for good type and conformation. And someone is basically getting mad at me for breeding for pets. I can’t stand it anymore. Do they want me to say, “okay you win.” All the time. This is why I have this mentality, that it just can’t go right or go well with me or whatever because it’s me. People reaffirm these things for me, they make me believe that I am inferior and not important. It’s true, anytime a person sees a time to step on or squash someone, they will. No one will stand up for you. I can’t stand up for myself, who will for me? I feel so low. Why can’t people be kinder, more empathetic? I am so so low. Do people realize that if they are mean and rude, it may be the last straw for someone and they might commit suicide? Why can’t people understand, have more compassion and think more about what they say? Please anyone who answers this, please be kind, I’m so exhausted and dreary

I get what your saying I had this problem my self and hhhhj ow did I fix it....I didn't for a long time...now I just do my thing and tell people to f off...I know it's not the right thing to do..but be you. You got this...if you ever need to talk I am here....

 

[Lenny loves chickens]

I get what your saying I had this problem my self and hhhhj ow did I fix it....I didn't for a long time...now I just do my thing and tell people to f off...I know it's not the right thing to do..but be you. You got this...if you ever need to talk I am here....

You have to learn to block out what you dont want to hear...I know it's hard and it might take time..

 

[Little Baby Bean]

I'm sorry. I'm sorry about how rude and selfish some people can be. And I wish that the world could just be a bit more peaceful sometimes.

But don't worry, things will get better eventually. Even if it does take a little while. Things usually get worse before they get better, after all.

I hope that you feel better soon, and that all the people that are making you feel like this move on. And if you ever need to talk and discuss it with anyone, I am right here.

 

[Weeg]

I think your post speaks for lots of newbies who feel small compared to more advanced people up on their high horses. Its easy for even new members on this community to feel useless, and unimportant. I felt the same way.
I think a lot of the time its not that members are trying to be rude or cruel, rather not taking the time to make their post super empathetic. They don't always realize how their post may read over the internet. Typing is difficult that way. But sometimes, people just feel superior to you in person, and through the internet. Those people are frustrating. I feel your pain though.
My advice to you, is to grow a thicker skin. I don't mean that in a mean, rude way at all. My heart goes out to you, it can be hard sometimes. What I mean by my sentence above, is to have confidence in yourself. Look into your heart and ask yourself, is this rude person worth my time? No! You don't have to tell them off, but find an inner confidence that you can look to when you need it. Realize that no one knows you, better than you. You got this! Take what you like, and if its not helpful or unnecessary, look for that inner confidence and bump it off. Take it with a grain of salt, because you are a strong person who can take it. All of these hurtful, frustrating experinces will make you stronger. I know thats what it did for me.
If you ever need anyone to talk to, I am here. Along with so many other members. You got this, go ahead and be the strong person you know you are. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

 

[Texasclucker]

Don't let them walk all over you and if they are being rude that is unacceptable

 

[chickengr]

just IGNORE them! it is about YOUR life and choices you make are YOURS! we are meant to be free, right? don't let anyone interfere with your life.

if you raise rabbits as pets not only it is your right to do so but you also have beautiful pets that you enjoy. some people raise snakes as pets. I don't understand them but as long as they keep their snakes at their homes it is none of my business.

 

[Texasclucker]

Some people could stand to learn how to word things differently I always make an attempt to make how I am saying something understandable.

 

[MistyandLuna]

Thank you everyone for your kind words. That’s very nice to know that there are others who have felt that way. I tell myself a lot that I deserve to be treated that way by others because I was born to be that way, for some reason I adopted that mentality. But I will try to not take things so personal. I always view it as people are trying to hurt me. I hope that I’m not a burden to any one of you for my post. Thank you everyone.