Hi All!
Lots going on here. Good and bad.
First, chicken news. Pearl, my bantam frizzle, has been laying consistently. I just love those little eggs! Harboiled a bunch for mini egg salad. I had to rehome Lavinia and Lola for noise reasons, and threw in Wanda because she's not laying anymore. Early menopause?? So now I'm down to 11. As the older girls quit laying, I think I'm going to switch to all production reds. Not as much fun, but I can start selling eggs and that would be nice. Shirley (my red) is so quite and friendly and such a good layer. I'd be happy to have a flock of all Shirleys!
First the good news. I got called back by my District for a part time (40%) position. Ready for this? Teaching Math! So all my chicken math lessons will help. I have a great part-time schedule: Monday through Thursday 9-12:30. Fridays off. Of course, I'm only making 40% of my salary, but with all the tutoring I'm doing, it puts me close to where I was. And there's some big grant money coming into the district at the end of the month, so it's conceivable I could be offered full time. I'm just enjoying being back to work and having such a great schedule.
Now the bad news. Laura and her boyfriend broke up last week. He called it quits, although she was waiting for it. He's a very young 26 and she's a mature 28. He wants to party with his friends all the time. So he chose that over a relationship with her. She's really hurting right now. It doesn't help that they have to see each other at the firehouse. She had quit her hateful job to work with his mother, but she couldn't face being there every day, so now she's heartbroken AND unemployed. But she's a trooper. She's been doing her fd job with her head held high. So many people have been so supportive, it's been great. She knows she's better off without him, but she misses having him around. And of course, he's acting like nothing's wrong, so that hurts too. People know the truth, though.
Probably the worst part is that they had plans to celebrate her birthday (Monday) by going to Disney. They were supposed to leave Saturday. It took her about 4 hours by phone to cancel the trip. It breaks my heart. I wish I could make it all better. I've been trying to be supportive without crowding her. It's such a tough situation. I guess it just takes time.
I still love being married. I guess that just takes time, too, huh?
Hey Suzanne, I hate to see anyone go through heartbreak/aches. Even when we know its for the best we all have been there when it hurts so much and nothing anyone says helps. I hope that you and her friends supporting her have plans to keep her busy on Monday. I think the first few days are always the hardest and the moments you expect the person. Maybe plan some big sleep over for her. I know it sounds like a young girl thing but it might just help her keep occupied and remind her that she has tons of support. I have a friend who is about to turn thirty and she has horrible luck with men. Every time she breaks up with a guy or he dumps her, I drive to CT and stop at two stores along the way. I get her ice cream and junk food from one...and last time I stopped at a little naughty store for another thing I wont mention here. I do it because I want her to laugh and because I love her and that is what I feel like she needs to know...she is still worth someones love.