A lot of this is true, but done is done. Let's not beat Ropo up over this here. She's got enough of a load on her shoulders no matter how it happened. I'm sure at first it seemed fairly simple, and the expense may have been too much, and/or maybe she just wanted to deal with it and fight the fight herself. I know I always feel like "This is so simple! Right is Right! Anyone can see that! I shouldn't need a dang lawyer!!! I have all kinds of proof and that person is obviously wrong!" and then things started to snowball.
Lets offer support, not blame. (sorry if I sound preachy, don't mean to but I'm worried about the stress she's got already.