My grandparents pretty much raised me so I can definitely relate.... My grandpa passed away from cancer when he was only 59 and I was 11. Mom went off and got married, had 3 more kids, and yet I still lived with grandma. After college I moved back home because grandma was getting older and needed help. She just passed 3 years ago... I still don't get along with my own mother most of the time. She takes care of my kid on nights and weekends though so I have to be nice (no other daycare options for those hours).