Get another doctor. Your health is too important, and when you feel that way, you are not inclined to ask questions or even want to spend any more time than necessary with them. I felt that way about DH's first cadiologist. He walked in the room, and more or less first thing he said to him was, "you will be on kidney dialysis within 5 years". DH is a worrier anyway, and this just sent him over the edge for awhile and absolutely infuriated me. So, after talking and talking, DH went to another one from Springfield, Il. that I think is just the bomb. Two Fridays ago, DH got up from the computer chair, where he always goes to sleep and passed out in the kitchen floor. Proceeded to tear a chunk out of his nose and had a squishy spot on the back of his head the size of a quarter. Another night in the hospital. He had an EKG, which showed some irregularties from the last on he had, and guess who they referred him too AGAIN. Mr. No Personality. I was fit to be tied, and DH knew it, but he said he would go ahead and finish up with him on this deal and then go back to the other one. We'll see.
