I have a good friend who is a single father. His daughter used to worship him. She is now 13 and is letting him know that his only use is food and shelter. He can't stand that she spends all her time away from him in her room or whatever. Problem is that her mother is still around. She is beyond worthless, has a boyfriend that doesn't work, live in apartments till they get evicted, come to his house and take his food while he's gone. Spend all the money they get from welfare on booze and pot. The daughter is starting to emulate her mother. My friend is ready to give up. She used to be such a sweet kid. It's really sad. If he gives up on her the kid will end up selling herself on the street. Drives me nuts.