Haven't had house rabbits in a decade but the one I had potty trained herself. Rabbits are naturally inclined to keep their cages clean after a little while.
To get them friendly, though I'd try to lure them towards you with snacks, try to get them to eat treats from your hands, sit in the room with them quietly, etc. Don't try to snatch at them or dive down to pick them up. They're prey animals and scare easily. Also they really mellow out after their first year IMO. You've got a rabbit that's going into its terrible teens. You gotta give them time to grow up just like puppies.
Birdie, can you describe your housing situation for Lilly and how old she is, etc?
To get them friendly, though I'd try to lure them towards you with snacks, try to get them to eat treats from your hands, sit in the room with them quietly, etc. Don't try to snatch at them or dive down to pick them up. They're prey animals and scare easily. Also they really mellow out after their first year IMO. You've got a rabbit that's going into its terrible teens. You gotta give them time to grow up just like puppies.
Birdie, can you describe your housing situation for Lilly and how old she is, etc?