I wonder if you can describe why it is that you feel a greater affection for your roosters than your hens.
I'll try, but there are a lot of reasons and observations, so settle in with a beverage. You asked! It starts with me having non-human aggressive roosters of all breeds (Belgian D'Anvers don't count because they're a joke, dumb little guys more bark than bite). I've seen them be completely selfless in many ways; of course they forgo food for the girls to have what they want, which is pretty standard for most roosters. The hens are stuffing themselves with heads down while the roosters just stand guard, watching the surroundings, ready to defend. I love their nobility, their selflessness, their courage, their complete devotion to the safety of their hens. Even my guys who have severe joint issues ignore their pain to charge to the defense of a squawking hen without hesitation, ready to do battle with whatever is causing her distress.. When they realize it's just a hen being a drama queen because I grabbed her when she didn't want to be grabbed, you can almost see them roll their eyes, and that is every last one of them, every rooster I still have here, even my old Belgian D'Anver rooster, the dumbest I've ever had. I've watched them stop hen fights using different methods, depending on the individual rooster's style of dispute settlement. When our cat first showed up here, Atlas was very leery of him and would get between me and the cat. Later he'd just steal whatever was left of the mouse the cat was eating to give to his hens, LOL. They are always ready to sacrifice themselves for their flocks without a thought to their own lives, to charge ahead even though they may be afraid (who knows what they're feeling facing a predator? It's their instinctual duty, the call they're heeding to protect and defend).
And they do all this without a thought to attacking the hand that feeds them. I can walk up to any of my roosters and pick him up and he won't resist (other than Hector, who panics if his feet leave the ground and will struggle violently, but he won't bite or flog; and my 11 year old Belgian D'Anver who has never liked attention and I don't push him unless I absolutely have to do something with him; he generally avoids close contact). I can turn my back on any one of them without fear or hesitation. I can bend down and look them in the face without worry. They look me in the eye, inches from my face and I feel a communication, a kinship. Their expressions are soft, non-aggressive. I once had a rooster change behavior later in life, happened years ago, became inexplicably aggressive, and the expression in his eyes changed, hardened. I could see it. My friend Ladyhawk could see it when she visited. The eyes tell you a lot. I just feel a connection with my roosters that I rarely feel with my hens. Don't get me wrong, I have my favorite hens, am fond of most all my birds, but the roosters have such a special place for me. Ladyhawk has some threads here on BYC, screen name is Cetawin, about her Blue Orpington rooster, Lancelot, who was one in a million. Though she passed away recently, sadly, I think he's still alive at almost 12 years old. One story is "Why Have a Rooster?" that is well worth reading shows the ultimate in what a rooster can be. She got him because she fell in love with my Blue Orpington rooster, Suede. I have pictures of Suede on her lap with her feeding him blueberry muffins she brought for him when she visited me. We both felt the same way about our roosters. I'm not sure everyone can relate, but my boys have given me such joy over the years. There is just something about a rooster that gets to me. When a rooster defends not only his hens, but
you, that is truly amazing. I've had that experience, as did Ladyhawk.
I'm not sure I've adequately explained why I love my roosters so much, but I do. Now, I have the rooster team in my bantam Cochin boys that I've always wanted, but could never achieve with the large fowl roosters. There are four sets of eyes in one flock watching the skies and though they're only a year old now, haven't established themselves as icons around here like my Blue Partridge Brahma rooster or Atlas, I am very fond of every one of them.