I am on Team No Nuts. I don't like nuts in fudge or chocolate either. It's a big deal to make fudge smooth and creamy, not grainy. Then mess that delightful texture up with nuts?? Bah! Humbug! Same thing with banana bread.
I like nuts. Love nuts. In Nut Things. I just do not consider banana bread to be a Nut Thing. Oh, don't get me started about fruitcake with nuts....
But the great thing is: You do you! Have your banana bread however YOU like it!
I already know I am a person of very low taste. I have come to grips with this in myself, and I accept myself as I am.
My dog and my chickens don't care. I guess after 31 years of marriage, my husband doesn't either. So please don't waste any concern on me. Scratch me off your list and save your energy for better things.