We have been married for 18 wonderful years. She was & still is my best friend. We just don't speak the same language, literally ! We will both talk about something have the same idea , but present it so totally different that you'd swear it was two different things. I'm to old to change my way of thinking, she's older than me. So where does that leave us? With a different preception of the same thing. Kinda like the 3 blind guys all trying to describe an elephant , one from the trunk, one from the tail & one from the middle. They just couldn't agree what it was like. I guess we'll just agree to disagree.