Rule number one in our house growing up. No lies. Not even those weird stories dad's for some reason like to tell. My mother would lite into dad something fierce if she thought he making stuff up.
You could refrain from saying something, keep a secret, but on NO account lie. NOT worth it!
Rule number 2 was our rooms were our own space. Even parents had to knock politely before entering. We were expected to give the same courtesy to each other, and them.
Taught us what trust looked like. I can't imagine thinking it was funny to mess with a *childs* head like that. An adult? Sure! But a kid? You are so right Leah's Mom... messes with their ability to trust anything. How can you expect them to act respectfully to anyone if you (parent, A number One in childs life) disrespect them? Never made any sense to me.

Not that I have an opinion or anything...
Chickens. Added sulfur to all the dust bath niches yesterday. Have been caring for the chickens in Quar, so was leaving the main flock to DH. Had this "feeling" yesterday and checked them. Both Lav orps have bad mites and one of the Marans. <sigh> "DH, you do check them at night, right?" He: "I haven't seen anything" ?? Okay!? When I say bad, I mean BAD. Maybe we need to get his eyes checked; or install 'traffic cams' and a megaphone out there (DH! You did NOT check for mites!). Going to rotate DE, Sulf, and wood ash for the next week. Am also going to do 1g/lb dry weight sulfur to the FF. Will try to remember to update in about 10days?
-Aleta G.