The new (human) baby thread...

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I am gonna call the pediactrician monday, which I think I should have done days ago. Shane seems like he is in extreme discomfort after eating. I burb him and usually get a few real nice burps but he hates being up on my shoulder or on his belly. Then he makes his poop faces, turns all red, cries and makes faces like he is in pain, sometimes he will fart a lot and that seems to make him feel better. I just don't know if this is normal. That coupled with all the spit up and his feedings are all over the place. It is hard for me to decifer when he should eat next cause he seems to graze. We eat for 5-10mins then burp, then have a fit then will want to eat again in 10 mintues (sometimes not). When I can get him to eat for the reccomended 20 mins he spits up even more and still has his uncomfortable fits. My DH got to experience this for the 1st time last night and he thinks something is not right. Making me feel guilty (not on purpose) for not calling the Dr earlier about it. I know Shane is eating enough cause I can tell he is getting bigger and heavier so atleast I know he is thriving. His diapers are consistant too. The feces look a little more watery than they were, but idk if that is a concern...same color, just not as seedy.

Would like DH to start the bottle, but looks like another thing I will have to do myself cause waiting for him will be too long. Frustrating that even when DH is here to help, I am not really getting any help. If I still feel completely frustrated this upcoming week I am gonna go and cry on my mom's shoulder cause I don't think my DH is gonna be very comforting since he feels like he is doing all the sacrificing by working a boatload of Overtime.

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It'll get better, I promise. Otherwise there sure would be a whole lot of only children in the world!
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How old is Shane now? I think a little visit with the pediatrician is a good idea. He may be gassy, he could have reflux, who knows... but talking to a doctor and, hopefully, finding out that he's just a normal newborn should make you feel better.
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Wyatt went through a phase for about 3 weeks where he had a lot of gas and just screamed his little head off. Mylicon drops worked wonders...I gave them to him constantly, but at least they made him stop trying. Can't remember if you said you've tried those or not?
 
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Unfortunately pumping exclusively tends to decrease milk production (vs nursing), so I'm not sure how to help. Maybe try contacting a lactation consultant?
 
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Unfortunately pumping exclusively tends to decrease milk production (vs nursing), so I'm not sure how to help. Maybe try contacting a lactation consultant?

I have an appointment scheduled for Tuesday. I'm hoping she has some good insights.
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I also think that the flange is too small on my pump. I've ordered an extender/adaptor, but that's going to take a few days to get here. So we'll see if that helps.
 
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I don't know if anyone else answered this, but if you are supplementing that might be your problem. A newborn can eat ever hour to every 3 hours when breastfeeding until your milk supply is set. Supplementing this early on will cause you problems with your milk down the road. You will feel like you are glued to the couch and feeding the baby 24/7. I have 5 kids and breastfed the last 4.
If you continue to supplement you need a good pump so you can pump after the feedings to help increase your milk.
 
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he is precious!
I have enough milk to feed an african nation..sorry. I wonder if size matters? I was large before I was pregnant and my colostrum came in a while before I had him. Are you drinking enough water?

honestly...I would like my next delivery to include an epidural so maybe a little longer than 2 hours would be nice. like 3 or 4, I keep seeing on the baby shows all these women who look darn content with their epidurals and it makes me a little jealous that they are not in excruciating pain. Especially having the Dr trying to manually remove my placenta after I gave birth, I had to cut her off cause I think she would have been digging all night and she may not have realized that I did not have any drugs. If that happens again I will demand surgery immediately.

another rough night last night, really wearing me down. I must be doing things all wrong, happytxchick said her baby slept through the night twice and Caroline is younger than shane. Just did some reading about nighttime routines and will try to make some changes. At this point I think about the impossibility of returning to work. Am I really gonna have this sorted out in 3 more weeks?

Oh my gosh..... I also didn't have any drugs and they kept reaching their arm in there to get all the placenta and the Dr. would also take a sponge stick and stick it in there..... I think all the after birthing and stitches hurt more than the birth.
 
funny how sunshine can change everything, both shane and I are better today, been a while since the sun has showed up here. but we will see how the night goes. stopped the mylicon drops to see if we are having too much of a good thing...so far so good
 
what is everyone too busy caring for a newborn to get on byc? Hope y'all are well. Shane is doing very well, has a stuffy nose that doesn't seem to bother him (but bothers me) and we seem to be settling into somewhat of a routine. If daddy rocks him to sleep at night we sleep much better, had 2 nights in a row where he slept for 3 hours before waking to be fed. Gonna take him for a neighborhood stroll today since the weather has finally broke for us. I had to stop using blankets so I am glad that it is finally warm out, he is moving a lot and is very strong. A few times I put him down to nap and he woke up in a completely different spot than where I laid him down. I think he is gonna keep up moving around like he did in the womb. He may ambulate before we know it!

best wishes to all of you!
 
ok, I need advice. shane falls asleep in my arms, but wakes up moments after I put him down...what? It happens about 80 % of the time (and always at the 12:30am feeding). it doesnt matter where I put him down either. any ideas? I have things I cant do with him in my arms (like spray the house for these darn ants). I get real mad at 1am (ish) when i spend more time trying to put him down than I do feeding him and that is my hardest hours of the day
 

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