I must admit I was married for 16 years and divorced for 28. I wouldn't change a second of it. Maybe get divorced sooner. Loved my freedom. When I divorced I immediately thought about going out and looking. My Mom said " Don't you know that you are a one man woman?" I thought about it and she was right. It took me eight years to get over the divorce but I never once considered remarrying. Now I'm soooooo glad I didn't. Maybe I'm just a pretty selfish person, but I like having only myself to ponder about.OY Vey Perchie, I know that,just can't spell. I'm pretty shelf worn myself. Last date was Feb.10,2000
But, you know after time, like 14 years or so, I don't care!! It's heaven being able to do what I want, when I want to, and not ask permission to spend my own money, or have to hide my purchases rather than get raked over coals. Or wear makeup I was allergic to since high school, shave legs(out of season-winter), I could go on and on. Actually I don't think I was ever of marital potential. When I was outspoken I paid for it. It just didn't seem the way a relationship should be. So many friends of mine seemed to have story book romances AND then I l earned the rest of the story.
