people post, asking for advice, and then argue with folks who really are experts!
*sigh* My husband has done this to me all of our married lives. He'll ask my opinion on something, then give me chapter and verse about why he's not going to do any of the things I suggest or why my concerns are pointless. I wind up feeling like, "if my opinion is of so little value to you, why do you bother to ask?" And then, if it all goes kaflooey in the way I feared it would, I get the fun of swallowing the words, "I told you so" (because saying it out loud truly is pointless).



