Things you wish you could say

I feel you, I'm always the one who stands to the side, the one no one wants at their table, the one people avoid like the plague. :hmm
What?! That’s so sad. But... your... so... awesome!
 
I'm super nervous all the time too. I have really bad social anxiety. The only thing I could ever talk about is chickens, unfortunately no one ever knows what I'm talking about. And everytime I find someone with chickens they're all like "Oh yeah, I took care of them when they were babies, now they are just annoying and I never go see them LOL." It's really sad. I feel like those people don't even deserve to have chickens.
I also have social anxiety... most of the time I blabber about chickens, and chocolate. So I really only have one friend, besides on BYC.
 
But, that being said, once I was at the grocery store, and hadn’t been able to find what I wanted. I was rather frustrated.

At the cash register they asked

“Did you find everything you were looking for today?”

Me:

No”

The lady:
“Oh that’s good!...)

I really wanted to :smack
 
I was one of the "social outcasts" too when I was in school. It took a long time, like 15-20 years, for me to realize it was better to be me, than to change myself to fit in with any group. I'm sure I'm a lot stronger person now, for what I went through then.

But oh, those years were sooo difficult. The best advice I can give is to find something to hang onto, to believe in, whether it's your faith, your dog, your chickens, books, learning, exercise, and hopefully not drugs or alcohol.

:hugs :hugs :hugsfor all of you who feel alone or sad or empty.

I wish I could sit and talk with each and all of you.
 

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