Micah, I forgot to thank you for your link. I checked it out, and it seems pretty neat. I'll def have to take some tips from that lady
Redhen, I know you've commented on a couple of of my previous posts. And you don't take anythign from one. Heck I'm scared of you
I admire you and I hope to be as bold as you are sooner rather than later
Sonoran Silkies and Nathowe, I have made friends with a few other wives from my hubby's boat. Although Most of the girls I've met, I would not want knowing my business..
Some of them will run you over in a heart beat without even thinking twice because they are bored, and need to create drama on someone else's account to ammuse themselves. Although, most of them are very nice, and very trustworthy, and the CO's wife is there for anything at any time. I do have a friend from back home that I have been talking to a lot lately. Her husband was in the navy for about ten years, and they had similar problems and a baby, and they didn't even like eachother. They were married because they had a kid, and "it was the right thing to do"... They have overcome there stuff, and are still together and doing good. She is my wealth of information lately.
So Friday night when he came home, I was a little weirded out. But he was being nice, so I wasn't going to complain and he offered no explanation.. Saturday he has duty, so I tokk him in the morning. I wanted to go see him at dinner time but he said it was raining.... So I didn't go. And when I picked him back up Yesterday (Sunday) morning, he was still especially cheerful. It was starting to freak me out a bit, like do I need to start sleeping with a hatchet for protection? He still offered nothing to me. I don't know if he had been talking to someone at work? Friends, chaplain, chief? I have no idea, and he won't say, so I thought maybe he was just being fake nice... And I told him this. He said it hurt his feeling that I would think he was being fake nice to me.. So I asked.. What gives? He says that he loves me very much, we're still newly weds, and we'll get the hang of it sooner or later... Really? That's it, that's all you can give me? I suppose that's a good answer, but I would still like to know where it came from...
We went over to see the uncles and grandpa yesterday. His one uncle is very quiet, he seems to just take it all in, and whenever I see him I talk his ear off. Well we were outside talking with the quiet uncle, and I "casually" mentioned my farmers market gig when hubby wasn't talking. And uncle said all the good for you stuff. You know, how hard it is to job and so it's good that even though this is ten hours a week it's ten hours a week that I'm earning something, and if youlike it then do it.. I only said something because I know my hubby is still not 100% okay with it and thinks I can find something better, so to have someone that he likes all the time, and looks up to this guys and take what he says at face value to say it's a good thing I'm hoping to just kind of get my point across a little more.
We went to dinner with a friend, saw the fireworks. They were awesome!! I've never been so close to firework ever, they were setting them off of the same peir my hubby's boat is parked on so it kind of looked like the sub was shooting them off
It was neat.
So I'm still not sure what turned his head around, but I still want to talk with someone who can help us out long term and there are plenty of resources here to get a hold of. But for now, even though I'm really confused I'm not down in the pooper...