trauma and divorce

[EweSheep]

Yes, throw the book at him and all the police reports on him when you go to court. He will NOT change if he has not done it sooner.

Like the others are saying, go to the women's crisis center and they will be able to help you get on your feet. It will get rough at first but it will get better. Had a work friend that went thru the same thing but he assaulted her, kicked her dog, threatened to kill her kids, she finally had enough when he left a bruise on her face. She took off to Dove and from there, she has succeeded in life and remarried again to a wonderful man who adores her.

 

[NinnyGillaspie]

Sounds to me like you DH was jealous of your bunny. He was probably mad at something small, and wanted to hurt you by hurt ing your bunny. That's mean, and uncalled for. Very immature. Kick him to the curb, girl.
Next time, it could be you!

 

[Carols Clucks]

Sorry about the loss of your bunny Joey.

I remember that you have posted in the past about some of the issues you are having. Please take your meds and do not drink, drinking will not help you make good decisions.

If you think you are a danger to yourself, you need to go talk to the staff at your local er asap!

You should go to social services and ask your counselor/worker what kind of help you can get. They might have a temporary shelter you can stay in and a safe place for your tortoise to stay if they will not allow him. They may have some suggestions of a good group home situation that will be a better match for you.

I am sorry your parents can not take you, but they might not be able to handle the situation if you start drinking or be able to handle medical conditions.

 

[Tanichca]

I cannot even begin to imagine your pain right now. I'll be praying for you!

 

[QuinnP]

It says not to drink with Klonipin & I dont want to end up in the hospital. I turned in the divorce papers this morning.
why me?
Leonard my first husband, suicide in 2000
Susannah Elizabeth miscarried 2002
Isaac McMutt my dog died in 2002
my only child taken 2004,
lost my colony of pet rats in 2005
Doc, Benjy & Rory, turtles lost in 06
son Seanna miscarried February 2011
Arlo died in June 2011
Joey died December 8 2011

what next?

 

[QuinnP]

WHAT KIND OF PERSON DOES THAT TO A DEFENSELESS ANIMAL!!


*rants, kicks wall, scowls bitterly, wants to hurt something.**

 

[Tanichca]

Quote:
a sick, twisted, psychopath, that's who. And seriously, you wouldn't want to stay with anyone like that, so it's good that you are getting out of there. Life will give your soon-to-be-ex some bloody hard knocks. Just take care of yourself and the things you love, and stay away from that type of person in the future.

 

[QuinnP]

JOEY WASN'T DOING ANY HARM! HE WAS JUST LAYING ALL RELAXED & STRETCHED OUT IN HIS CAGE, HE WAS HAPPY MOMENTS BEFORE, HE MADE THE MOST AWFUL NOISE WHEN i WAS CARRYING HIM TO THE VET, A HIGH PITCHEd SCREAMING THAT i WILL NEVER GET OUT OF MY head (darn caps lock) if only I coulkd have run faster, maybe he would have made it

Joey Peanut, April 2011 to December 2011

the vet said he was one of the healthiest bunnies he'd seen & I took awesome care of him. They did an x ray he had a brain hemorrhage & his lungs filled with blood

 

[chixie]

I am sorry you are going thru this. please get into a place where you can be safe. do not take a chance with your life. I am saying prayers for you.

 

[Chickerdoodle13]

I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

Definitely don't resort to drinking alcohol in this situation, but do remember to take care of yourself. I know losing an animal is tough and everything about your situation is tough and heaertbreaking. Sometimes in these situations we can forget about ourselves.

I wish you the best of luck in your situation, and I hope things get better for you soon.