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[wolftracks]

Like I said before

"Kick a dog. LIFE!"

I'm so sick about how children get no protection what so ever in any judical system.

Shows what the priorites are.

 

[Ema]

that is messed up, I have been trying to avoid posting until a verdict came through on your end. I was abused form age 6 to age 12 and it happened during the years I was in Spain living with my mom and grandmother, it was my step dad, long story short I cracked when I was 15 and told what happened, he was arrested he confessed to doing the same thing to his own 2 daughters and he was allowed to walk free after he paid 30,000 Euros. though he has the title of child molester, he pretty much got away with it too.

I had a lot more confidence in the canadian justice system, but after this it just seems they too are just full of it. but I guess it goes hand in hand with allowing Karla hamolka walk the streets too. Dar, I don't know you, but from a fellow canadian, or more Ontarian, I feel for you but more for your son. The S*** part is that they allowed soo much time to pass before a trial, something needs to be done. And I think its BS that they have to protect his identity, I can understand your sons, but him, what rights should he have after doing such things....none...topics like these flare me right up. I get super passionate over things like this. there is one thing my husband always tells me, if something like this was to happen to our children there would be no judge, no jury no protection behind bars for the culprit. I don't think of myself as a person who thinks that way, but In this case I wold agree with my husband 100 percent.


btw, speaking of justice system, a man was convicted of a traffic violation and the judge tried to give him 5 months in monteith, drivers and vehicles failed to inform him they had suspended his licence over a ticket, got pulled over in his friends truck and found out that night. this was my husband. Luckily our friend who is a police woman spoke up as the ruling was being read, Instead he was order to pay 1500 dollars. Over a 230 dollar ticket he forgot all about.

His coworker, went to a bar got drunk and when the police was called over his misconduct he attacked the police officer breaking his nose and giving him a black eye, he also tried to de-weapon the officer. He was given a slap on the wrist!!!!!!!!!!! This is what they call justice!!!
Everything else I want to say I can't in order to respect BYC rules, so I will show restraint.

you must be exhausted, and the disappointing you must feel is likely overwhelming, but take heed tomorrow the sun will shine!!

Hugs,

 

[Dar]

thanks Ema...

I have made the remark to the crown and the officer who investigated.... If I took care of things myself when I found out I would be out already... and it would be soooo worth it... after all is it not a parents right and job to protect their child even if it means laying their own life on the line

 

[Ema]

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that man will get his....one way or another!!!

 

[Dar]

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that man will get his....one way or another!!!

yep

I got my back covered!

 

[TigerLilly]

I am so sorry to hear that this went the wrong way. It's almost as if they don't care about the safety of our children. I can not believe that the law PROTECTS child molesters.
I pray that your son has had counseling and will be able to put this behind him, move on with his life.
Good luck to you both.

 

[Cindiloohoo]

On a side note, a guy I knew from high school was convicted a couple days ago for molesting his 13 year old adopted daughter who propositioned him. He got 23 years federal time, and will serve out every last day of the sentence...IF the other inmates don't find out what he's in for and kill him. This guy was like a brother to me, all through school, and I loved him dearly, NEVER would have thought he'd have done this kind of thing. He admitted it to his uncle, whom I also know, and wound up taking a plea deal. He deserves whatever he has to go through. I'm glad he's not getting out any time soon. Sometimes justice is served and they get locked up.

 

[Dar]

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god i love your justice system.. 23 years on a plea..... crap... if this guy was convicted max he would have got would be 10 years and only serve 1/3 of it

 

[Cindiloohoo]

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god i love your justice system.. 23 years on a plea..... crap... if this guy was convicted max he would have got would be 10 years and only serve 1/3 of it

Just 10 years?!?! That is ridiculous! Minimums should be deterrents, not encouragement. Glad I'm not Canadian!

 

[Dar]

Our so call justice system focuses on rehabilitation not punishment... which blows chunks huge.. LOL sorry I am trying to be family friendly