- Oct 1, 2008
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Regardless of whether or not we are in a depression, what each of us must do is still the following:
1. Determine the facts (i.e., the truth), first for the economy and then for our personal lives.
2. Figure out what these facts MEAN to us as individuals for the present and future.
3. Make non-emotional decisions based on these facts. Re-think these decisions when new information comes along that change the facts.
The real dangers here are 1) getting information that is not factual (bad information) and 2) not being able to take emotions out of the equation. Both take work. The first takes research AND discretion, the second requires time AND dedicated thought- (sometimes sleeping on it as a gut check to make sure the decision is a good one).
End result: you can only make the best decisions you can based on the information you can get ahold of and the effort you put into thinking out the options available to you. After that you shouldn't feel guilty about your decisions since you have done everything in your power to make the right one - you just re-assess the situation and move on. To get stuck in the "shoulda" of hindsight is a cippling thing that a lot of people do to their harm.
Take control of the situation as much as you can by identifying the areas that you do and do not have control over, then control what you should. Hope this makes sense.
Loop.
1. Determine the facts (i.e., the truth), first for the economy and then for our personal lives.
2. Figure out what these facts MEAN to us as individuals for the present and future.
3. Make non-emotional decisions based on these facts. Re-think these decisions when new information comes along that change the facts.
The real dangers here are 1) getting information that is not factual (bad information) and 2) not being able to take emotions out of the equation. Both take work. The first takes research AND discretion, the second requires time AND dedicated thought- (sometimes sleeping on it as a gut check to make sure the decision is a good one).
End result: you can only make the best decisions you can based on the information you can get ahold of and the effort you put into thinking out the options available to you. After that you shouldn't feel guilty about your decisions since you have done everything in your power to make the right one - you just re-assess the situation and move on. To get stuck in the "shoulda" of hindsight is a cippling thing that a lot of people do to their harm.
Take control of the situation as much as you can by identifying the areas that you do and do not have control over, then control what you should. Hope this makes sense.
Loop.