pasdechat73
Songster
What island is your family on? When was the last time you came for a visit? Pre married or pre kids lol. Prioritiesyou have a beautiful home to work at and kids... another full time job.
I have both maternal and paternal family on Oahu. Unfortunately, I haven't been to the islands since 1993. After my dad passed away, my mom had no desire to visit; and my husband is a mountain man: he doesn't do heat or the beach
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I promised my daughter we'd visit when finances are available for travel. My favourite is the "Big Island" -- I fell in love with the land, fishing and vegetation. I could live out the rest of my days there...but alas I am in the mountains and I don't see anything changing.
Its OK though. If I cannot be in HI this is my second favourite place to be. Its beautiful, rural and untamed. Only thing I don't like is the cold. It's a bit biting. And unlike the kids, I'm not fond of the snow. It's always a big PITA. Here's Maddy and I braving the cold...its snowing as I type:
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These darn chickens have changed my gardening for the worse. It's a little heartbreaking, but oh well, I love them and get thrilled those few moments when I feel like I have actually accomplished both to some degree. Definitely not like it was pre chickens, I had big baskets of food from my little spot and got to share a lot, now I am lucky to supplement a salad. But it is a GOOD salad. Especially now days...It took me a few years to get to where I am as far as harmony... they won more battles than I did and they still tear up the plantings around the house. I have put potted plants in to slow them down but they still wreck things and I give up and let it go sometimes.
I hear you! I'm at the point where I don't even try to do damage control (maybe its the weather) as I've somehow fallen more in love with the chickens and care less about the mess. In all honesty, I'm just going to be overjoyed when we're done with the cold and snow and I can start gardening again...even if *they* do mess things up.
Speaking of gardening...I'm pretty much confined to doing all things indoors so I've been farting around with my indoor plants. The cacti and herbs don't seem to take a beating regardless of the weather so I cut the dreads today; and I clipped off the edible parts (of the herbs, that is) which I dry upside down in paper bags.
We also had another tree fall down thanks to the wind...hooray...more wood for hubby to go outside and play with his chainsaw like Leatherface!!
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Xoxoxoxo to All ~ Sleep and Be Well!!!
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