Artichoke Lover
Free Ranging
I worked with people with drug addictions for a number of years. It is amazing how good people can be brought down so low by illegal drugs. It seems to be very rare that a person can escape that life, but I still hope for the best for everyone. From my point of view, where I used to work, most people with drug addictions don't get the help they need to reboot their lives drug free. Mostly, they are locked up for a short time to clean up, and then sent right back to the same life they came from with all the drugs.
I don't know what the current statistics are, but when I worked, our charts said about 97% of the people with drug addictions would be back. I personally never saw anyone get and stay drug free. The only people I hear that do manage to leave the drugs behind, are those that completely change their lives, where they live, and dump all their old "friends" from their drug days. Not too many people can do that. So I appreciate hearing stories of those who are successful.
I agree with both of you. Our church runs a rehab and has for about 10 years now. Some of the biggest things we have found are that people struggling with addiction need a community both during rehab and especially after they get out. We teach job skills and help create job opportunities whether it’s working at one of the rehabs centers: thrift store, woodshop, or auto repair. Or through one of the businesses in the community that we partner with. Unfortunately it’s true that there are always more people that fall back into drugs than stay clean but it’s always incredible to watch the ones that do turn there lives around, get a job, get their kids back. One of the miracles we’ve gotten to witness is a large number of the leaders of our program who have been clean 5, 10, 20, years used to do drugs together now they are all clean and we get to see them talk, and laugh and teach together and hang out with their kids and grandkids. It’s amazing to watch the kind of restoration God can bring and I’m so grateful to be able to witness it.That's not quite true. You can get drugs in jail, just as easy, sometimes easier than on the street. They may not have 'cleaned up'
Also, they do NOT go back to the same life they had. They now have a conviction on their record, many times it's a felony. Good luck getting a decent job with THAT. At least before the drug bust, they may have had a clean record and could get a good job IF they wanted.
Even if they did want to clean up, society has essentially told them with this, $^@ U. THIS is your crappy life, but you better fix it, but we won't help.
If we as a society truly want to help people, then we need to quit with the stigmatism of a conviction. I see you had a drug conviction? Yes I did, are you clean, yes I am, do you plan on staying clean? yes I do. good, do you want the job? YES>>> I DO. great, you start monday.
If a person makes a mistake, make them pay for it, but once they paid their debt to society, it's DONE, you need to now accept them BACK into society and not hold that mistake against them forever. There are exceptions of course but in general, we really need to get off our high horses and get over ourselves.
Just my two eggs worth.
Aaron
(Also I would be happy to discuss this topic more in a different thread or pms if anyone is interested I just don’t want to hijack the garden thread)