My ds has not had a relationship with his bio father at all, he is now 17.
4 weeks ago we found the bio father and showed up on his door step. He has hid from me and his son for 17 years (i know what a man atta boy!)
Now my son is trying to start some sort of relationship with the bio father but it is really strange.
Bio father will call him or text message him almost daily and they talk via e-mail but this past weekend DS went to B/D's house for the weekend and for the whole time he was there all her got from B/D was...
I am waiting for you to stab me in the back...
I cant pay child support cause i have no money
what do you want?
why are you doing this?
why now?
Is your mother putting you up to this?
Does she want back support?
My DS ans his B/D act so much alike from the way they speak to their likes and dislikes from music and books. B/D thinks I and "trained" him to he like B/D
My DS has not lived at home for 8 months now ans after the visit with B/D this weekend he called me monday morning and asked to come home.
He said the fact that his B/D does not trust him and the fact that he now realizes that his true family is here, he wants to be home.
B/D knows i will not tolerate drug use that was one of the main reason we split. He has the nerve to do drugs right in front of MY son.
I told B/D as soon as we found him that I dont want anything, I dont want money. What I do want is my son to know his B/D and make his own decision on him as a person and for B/D to answer the questions that I cant answer for him...Like why was my son never good enough?..
O well thats my rant ...thanks for listening...I will never understand how someone can want a child and then walk away from them.
edited to add... B/D = Bio dad
4 weeks ago we found the bio father and showed up on his door step. He has hid from me and his son for 17 years (i know what a man atta boy!)
Now my son is trying to start some sort of relationship with the bio father but it is really strange.
Bio father will call him or text message him almost daily and they talk via e-mail but this past weekend DS went to B/D's house for the weekend and for the whole time he was there all her got from B/D was...
I am waiting for you to stab me in the back...
I cant pay child support cause i have no money
what do you want?
why are you doing this?
why now?
Is your mother putting you up to this?
Does she want back support?
My DS ans his B/D act so much alike from the way they speak to their likes and dislikes from music and books. B/D thinks I and "trained" him to he like B/D
My DS has not lived at home for 8 months now ans after the visit with B/D this weekend he called me monday morning and asked to come home.
He said the fact that his B/D does not trust him and the fact that he now realizes that his true family is here, he wants to be home.
B/D knows i will not tolerate drug use that was one of the main reason we split. He has the nerve to do drugs right in front of MY son.
I told B/D as soon as we found him that I dont want anything, I dont want money. What I do want is my son to know his B/D and make his own decision on him as a person and for B/D to answer the questions that I cant answer for him...Like why was my son never good enough?..
O well thats my rant ...thanks for listening...I will never understand how someone can want a child and then walk away from them.
edited to add... B/D = Bio dad
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