What is with some women......................

[redhen]

It simply depends on how its done..
If you give a tasteful compliment on their looks its great!
If its done with tasteless words, looks and gestures...well...

But, yeah..i think its nice to compliment someone on their looks! Why not?

I know it makes my day!

<<< *cough..THATS A HINT PEOPLE!!*

 

[jafo]

I look, my wife looks, and when it's over, we're still together. If you seen our page here, it's not like I'm a treat or something. I really don't care what a woman looks like. Dependable, loving, sincere, funny with a good dose of common sense. Gold diggers suck. oh,,,,,,,and they gotta love Harleys!

 

[deb1]

Even as a woman, I notice if another woman has an unusually good shape. There is an aesthetic pleasure for me in viewing men or women who have athletic builds. That doesn't mean that I would every leave my husband for another man. When it comes to who I want to share my bed with, I need intelligence and compassion over good looks.

By the way, my hubby is good looking also. So, I get everything with him.

 

[fowltemptress]

Redhen, have I ever mentioned how exceptionally attractive you are?

 

[redhen]

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LOL

Why thank you!
And have I ever metioned that your pretty darn cute yourself!

 

[fowltemptress]

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LOL

Why thank you!
And have I ever metioned that your pretty darn cute yourself!

Aww, shucks, you've made my night!

 

[hikerchick]

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Feel free to make me feel like a piece of meat.

Unsolicited compliments are far too few and far between. I make a point of telling strangers they look good, if I honestly think so, and they all seem genuinely thrilled to be noticed. It's when you get to know a person and learn more about them that you can start complimenting their talent, mind, etc, but until then, all you have to go on is physical, and I never see the point in holding back a compliment. It could make someone's day.

I just find it creepy when guys I don't even know start talking about my physical attributes. I don't like it. Compliment my earrings. My purse. My shoes. Not my looks.

 

[deb1]

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Feel free to make me feel like a piece of meat.

Unsolicited compliments are far too few and far between. I make a point of telling strangers they look good, if I honestly think so, and they all seem genuinely thrilled to be noticed. It's when you get to know a person and learn more about them that you can start complimenting their talent, mind, etc, but until then, all you have to go on is physical, and I never see the point in holding back a compliment. It could make someone's day.

I just find it creepy when guys I don't even know start talking about my physical attributes. I don't like it. Compliment my earrings. My purse. My shoes. Not my looks.

I understand this. There is a difference between getting a compliment from someone who you know values your intelligence and someone about who you are unsure.

 

[redhen]

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Feel free to make me feel like a piece of meat.

Unsolicited compliments are far too few and far between. I make a point of telling strangers they look good, if I honestly think so, and they all seem genuinely thrilled to be noticed. It's when you get to know a person and learn more about them that you can start complimenting their talent, mind, etc, but until then, all you have to go on is physical, and I never see the point in holding back a compliment. It could make someone's day.

I just find it creepy when guys I don't even know start talking about my physical attributes. I don't like it. Compliment my earrings. My purse. My shoes. Not my looks.

Now Hiker...If the guy says.."hey babe, i like your %^^&**..."
then YA, thats creepy.

But if he simply says..that he thinks your a beautiful/pretty/attractive (take your pic) woman..
Than thats nice! IMO

 

[hikerchick]

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I just find it creepy when guys I don't even know start talking about my physical attributes. I don't like it. Compliment my earrings. My purse. My shoes. Not my looks.

Now Hiker...If the guy says.."hey babe, i like your %^^&**..."
then YA, thats creepy.

But if he simply says..that he thinks your a beautiful/pretty/attractive (take your pic) woman..
Than thats nice! IMO

Yeah I understand what you are saying but I still don't like it. I don't want to be valued for my appearance. I guess some women do, so they like it.Also, I wonder what the motive is- why is this guy telling me what he thinks of my looks? Who asked him? It makes me feel uncomfortable. I would never think of telling a total stranger - I think you are handsome/pretty/attractive. It is different when it is someone you are dating or involved with.